Ready to feel secure, connected, and confident in yourself and your relationships?

Meet Amanda Buduris, Ph.D., Licensed Psychologist, Certified Brainspotting therapist, EFT therapist, Certified Safe & Sound Protocol Provider

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You’re tired of being your own worst enemy, second-guessing yourself and your relationships, and simultaneously overextending yourself while making yourself and your needs small with everyone.

You’re burnt out, disillusioned, and discouraged after trying to hold on to hope that tomorrow will be different, yet still falling into the same patterns over and over again. You have a sense that you can have a life with more confidence, more stability, and more connected and fulfilling relationships, and are thinking it’s time you get some support...   

This is a space for you.


 

My Approach to Therapy

Therapy with me is an accepting, nonjudgmental space, and a collaborative process.

I never take for granted the role I serve in supporting others through their therapy process. My task as your therapist is to create a safe space for you to do some uncomfortable work, because let’s face it: change and growth are uncomfortable. And therapy is work. But we will always go at your pace, and never with an expectation that you have to share more than you want to or are ready to share.

In therapy with me, you’ll find you can say the things you need to say without a filter, needing to “stay on track,” or fear of judgment. My role is to hold space for whatever is it you want to bring into therapy, and to help you decide where and how we focus on these topics in order for you to develop new and deeper insights, change long-held patterns, and feel like you’re moving in the direction you want and need to be in life.

My goal is for you to leave every session with me feeling like you learned something (about yourself or your partner, or about a new coping strategy or way to communicate during conflict). Sessions might look different every time since I don’t think therapy should be a rigid or overly structured process. We might process and unpack how your week has gone, or dive into difficult themes that keep finding their way into your life.

 

 

How is therapy with me different?

Many of today’s solutions for trauma, relationships, anxiety, and self-esteem can take a one-size-fits all and hyper-focused approach, leading so many to feel like:

  • they have insight into their concerns but they don’t know what to do about them

  • they have skills to navigate distress but don’t understand why they’re distressed to begin with

  • they’re just plain and simple not making real progress

I know that your circumstances are unique, so I intentionally and collaboratively take a holistic, lens zoomed out approach to understand you as a whole being, under the cultures, systems, and societies in which you’ve developed.

Every step we take together is tailored to your specific needs and goals.

First, we’ll identify what your concerns are, explore personal and relational dynamics that have contributed to your current difficulty managing your emotions, communicating your needs and boundaries, and feeling seen, heard, and satisfied in your relationships. Then, we work on specific skills and changes that will be most effective for you. Through our work together, you’ll be better equipped to cope with anxiety and other distressing emotions, recover and move on from past trauma, and thrive in your relationships.

Am I the right therapist for you?

 
  • I’ve dedicated my professional career to understanding attachment, relationships, and trauma, and how to help people move past where they get stuck in their inner dialogue and coping strategies that just don’t work anymore.

    My training as a Licensed Psychologist means I have the expertise you need and deserve when it comes to processing your trauma, anxieties, insecurities, and relationship concerns.

    Ultimately, I can help you because I’ve personally lived through experiences of relational trauma, having anxiety in my relationships, pondering questions about my own self-worth, and issues in my romantic relationships, and I’m extensively trained in helping people overcome these concerns.

    Through our work together, you’ll be better equipped to cope with distressing emotions, recover and move on from past trauma, increase your self-confidence, and thrive in your relationships.

  • Clients describe me as authentic, a good listener, and non-judgmental. You might be thinking “sure, that’s what a therapist is supposed to be…,” but many of my clients come to me after experiences with therapists where that wasn’t the case, and that’s why they trust me and feel 100% comfortable to be their 100% authentic self with me.

    Our professional relationship is of utmost importance to me. I always make space for your questions and feedback so that I can help you as much as possible. Even if that means you disagree with me and want or need something different than what I might suggest.

    That also means I don’t keep things cold and clinical. I highly value being relational in my work with you, meaning I’ll share things I’ve learned in my life experiences, and how I really do get how many things are easier said than done, and how self-awareness can become overwhelming and lead to greater suffering.

    Oftentimes the people I work with are relieved to hear that not only are they not alone in their struggles, but that a therapist has also struggled and found a way to live life in the driver’s seat - rather than with anxiety and trauma as the driver.

    If one of your goals is learning how to be more compassionate and human with yourself and in your relationships, you’ll find that comfortably uncomfortable place with me.

  • I am a Latina Oregon transplant from the South Side of Chicago. I grew up in a mixed Mexican-American and White household, and I navigate the world as a light-skinned/White-passing Latina.

    I love cats and the Harry Potter series, and I probably own way too many houseplants and succulents than I have room for.

    Fit for a therapist, I am a Ravenclaw, whose house traits are: intelligence, learning, wisdom, and wit.

    And just like a millennial, my cats are my children, and my plants are my pets.

 

As your therapist, I’m also invested in my own personal growth because I know how hard it can be to really commit to the therapeutic process, and I never ask my clients to go anywhere I have not gone myself. I know the therapy process can at times be overwhelming, uncomfortable, disappointing, or frustrating.

I also know that it’s worth it.

The hard work of therapy can truly result in long-term changes in your life and relationships.

Specialities

Clinical Experience

I’m committed to ongoing education and trainings to provide the best support I can to you.

 
  • Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology from Iowa State University (2020)

    Licensed Psychologist (Oregon #3469)

    Florida Telehealth Registration (TPPY2077)

    Licensed Psychologist (Washington PY 61401376)

  • Board Certified Telehealth Professional - Level II (BCTP-II)

    Certified Clinical Trauma Professional Level II (CCTP-II, #204884)

    National Register Health Service Psychologist #68790

    Certified Brainspotting Therapist

  • Level 1 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy

    Brainspotting Phases 1 - 3

    Brainspotting: From Freeze to Thaw

    Brainspotting: Expansion

    ICEEFT-Approved Externship in Emotionally Focused Therapy

    ICEEFT-Approved Core Skills Training (Modules 1-4)

    EMDRIA-Approved Basic Training in EMDR (Levels 1 & 2)

    Sensorimotor Psychotherapy - Level 1

    Internal Family Systems - Level 1

  • American Psychological Association (APA)

    Oregon Psychological Association (OPA)

    International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT)

    Portland Center for Emotionally-Focused Therapy

    Rocky Mountain Brainspotting Institute

 

See how therapy with me can make a difference for you.

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My guiding principles


Inclusion

Welcoming of all identities and lifestyles. Exploring how culture, power, and privilege influence your concerns. Inviting you to actively collaborate in your plan for therapy.

 

Growth

Being actively involved in trainings and supervision so that I never fall out of touch of ways to help you. Engaging in my own work so I don’t burn out and can continue to show up wholly for you.

 

Authenticity

Transparency in our working relationship so you never have to guess what I’m thinking or why I’m doing something. A genuine space where you can say anything and everything (yes, even swearing). Giving direct feedback.

 

Connection

Making sure you feel comfortable in our relationship. Offering my own life examples as applicable so you know you’re not alone and I genuinely don’t judge you. Inviting feedback throughout our relationship.

Are we a good fit together?

  • We're likely a good fit if...

    • You’re ready to dig deep

    • You want a therapist to challenge you

    • You want to laugh and cry during your therapy sessions

  • We may not be a great fit if...

    • You’re not sure you want to get to the root of your concerns

    • You aren’t really looking for feedback of things to do differently

    • You’re looking for staunch professionalism from your therapist

Methods

  • Brainspotting

    “Where you look affects how you feel,” and we can harness this phenomenon and help you find deep, meaningful, long-lasting change.

  • EMDR

    Eye Movement Desensitization & Reprocessing can help make painful thoughts, feelings, and memories more bearable.

  • EFT

    Emotionally-Focused Couples Therapy is based in attachment research, and helps take couples from surviving to thriving.

  • IFS

    Internal Family Systems helps you heal your relationship with yourself.